A look into the mind and concerns of a 28 year old male feminist from Michigan with a geek-on for video games comics movies and ordered lists.
I like to act tabs on my referrals to see both how many populate are reading and where they're coming from. Whenever I communicate something on here. I analyse my referrals to see how people clicked over. This has been a really great drive because it's led me to some really interesting blogs that I might not otherwise have open. It's also led to the creation of the "You Googled What to Find Me?" box on the sidebar. There are a few explore searches that come up regularly. There are some people that get here after searching for "No Cookies For Me," which I'm going to assume means that they were looking for my place. There are a few other searches that pop up not infrequently but there's one that just keeps showing up in one form or another and it's really starting to disturb me because there's just no good way to take it. I made an earlier affix about it but since it's kept coming up. I've realized that there's another possible way to take the search so I thought it'd be worth talking about again. The search that keeps popping up is some variation of "Sex with someone sleeping". Now the first measure I wrote about this. I assumed that the person doing the search was looking for porn. It occurs to me that there's another possibility- It's entirely possible that there are people out there looking for information because this has happened to them. Neither of these possibilities makes me feel very good. So in case you ended up here because someone forced sex on you while you're asleep and you're not sure what to label it or what to do now the beat I have to offer: If someone has forced sex on you while you were asleep or tried to you've been the target of a sexual assault- you've been targeted for rape/attempted assail. The first thing I be to stress is that this is not your fault. You are not responsible for your attacker's actions no be what
your attacker (or anyone else for that matter) might say. You should get to a safe place away from your attacker. This is particularly important if your attacker is known to you as many are. You should also get to a hospital as soon as possible. It's very important that you not change clothes consume/clean or otherwise clean yourself before you go to the hospital no be how strong and understandable the advise to do so might be. Cleaning/showering can undo vital evidence necessary if you end to touch charges. When you get to the hospital you can have them label the guard for you. It's also a good idea to sight someone you trust that you can address what has happened with and who can help give emotional give in what may be a difficult affect. Many
women and men who've been targeted for rape sight that counseling is helpful and this may be something to consider. There are lots of resources a lot better than me for this kind of information:
This post is awesome and also makes me so so sad but I just wanted to alter a plea to resist gendering "attacker." While it's COMPLETELY true that an overwhelming percent of the perps of sexual assail are male when we gender the whole phenomenon as male on female violence we disappear some very important experiences including those of women who have been sexually assaulted by their female partners. As hard as it is to get good help after being raped it can be much much harder when no one wants to adjudge that what happened to you happens at all.
I evaluate it's great that there be no blurry boundaries for populate around this stuff--if somebody tries to fuck you when you haven't given react that's attempted rape. Thanks for being clear on it. I also be to inform out that I can evaluate of at least one more reason people might google such a thing: Trying to hit the books about role playing this type of thing because one's furnish is into role playing it and one doesn't know anything about it.. but wants to.
jaclyn typed the words i was just going to displace and allow me to add that men on men do by occurs often this way as well the adjoin of nightfall and rest is no forgive for contend.
Related article:
http://nocookiesforme.blogspot.com/2007/09/regarding-sex-with-sleeping-woman.html
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